Imperfection to perfection or vice versa



You see a person and you're like wow so perfect. You are so amazed by their features, those little gestures you note while observing them silently. You start to think that you're falling as you start to tell yourself that now your observation of the person has gone deeper and you are feeling a real connection.
Well, i have learned something and that is, its not about the perfections, perhaps it never is, as you realize subconsciously when you grow close. Those tiny details start to show up, those clumsy features, those secrets, those hidden things and its never the same. These things if seen at first, at the skin level if they come up to the surface will cause what you call not a good impression. Things which may overshadow the perfect features you saw at first that made you go and develop a deep connection by making unusual effort. At this point, these imperfections somehow don't interfere with the idea of you that the person you've put into is perfect. Instead, your feeling become strong, you start to truly embrace the person and things look clearer. So, for me, its not about finding how a person is perfect but finding tiniest of imperfect details and still letting them add nothing but a perfect touch to the idea of the person being perfect to you.

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